I wish you knew how to love yourself as you were. I wish you knew you had talents that weren’t just hobbies. I wish you knew that those hobbies (that gave you anxiety and existential dread if you went too long without doing them) were not just hobbies. I wish…

White People I Never Speak to Are Asking Me, “How are you doing?” I Wish They Would Stop In the last two weeks, the most annoying question for me from them has been, “How are you doing?” I like being checked in on at first, until I realize they’re doing…

“All You need is me” -me to me I have gotten really good at taking care of others. So good I forgot I was here, too. I’m 31 and I can feel when people need me and I pull away because I just need to not be needed right now like I need that and I have needs TOO will somebody love me enough to leave me alone?! Stay, but waaaaaay the hell over there. Please.

drink water. Before every meal and before you medicate that headache. Sometimes you’re not hungry, you’re dehydrated. Sometimes you don’t have a headache, you’re dehydrated. It’s okay to cut yourself off and let the silence of your life teach you. call your mom and dad more. they’re your true day…